Last month, my grandmother, Anna Kospiah, passed away at the young age of 93. She was my dad's mother and my oldest living relative. She was an independent, quiet woman who raised 5 children.
My grandmother grew up on a farm. She met my grandfather and got married very young. She worked in the steel mill during the depression. She even drove a forklift, something we did not know until talking with her during the last weeks of her life. She loved flowers and watching the birds in the garden.
My grandmother loved her independence. She lived on her own in a senior citizen high rise until she was almost 92. Then she moved in with my Aunt where she lived for the last year of her life. She took the city bus to the supermarket and shopping centers. She liked to walk even though arthritis was making this more difficult.
One of my grandmother's favorite past times was going to the casinos in Atlantic City or Las Vegas. She loved to travel with my mom and they went on so many trips together with senior citizen groups or just the two of them. They got along well and were good travel partners. My grandmother was not happy with the digitizing of the casino slot machines. She yearned for the return of the day when she could put quarters into the machine and pull the handle. She looked forward to these trips and they gave her great joy.
My grandmother was a frequent guest at our many family events. The grandchildren and great-grandchildren welcomed her with open arms. She could often be found in the kitchen washing dishes and cleaning up.
While preparing for her funeral, my sisters, mom, dad and I looked through hundreds of pictures to find the special ones for the funeral home. Looking through these pictures and reminiscing about the times we spent together brought laughter and tears. It was very therapeutic for all of us to celebrate her life and grieve together.
After her funeral, we all went to a casino in the Poconos to celebrate her life and one of the activities that she loved most. It was raining on our drive to the casino. However, once we got there, a big rainbow was in the sky and it ended at the casino. I think this was her way of telling us she was okay and still with us. It brought tears to our eyes. We put our money in the slot machines and placed our bets in honor of her.
I am thankful that I was able to have my grandmother in my life for as long as I did. I hope that I have her genes for a long life. She was a special lady and will always be close to my heart.
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Twenty Wishes
I just finished reading the book "Twenty Wishes" by Debbie Macomber. It is part of her Blossom Street Series. The book was such an easy read and so hard to put down. She introduced new characters in this book which focuses on AnneMarie who owns a bookstore. She takes us through the lives of several women who are widows. At one of the women's frequent get togethers they discuss compiling a list of twenty wishes representing things they want to do or accomplish. The author does such a good job of taking the reader through the twists and turns in these women's lives. I felt like I knew each of the characters personally.
The list of twenty wishes is very intriguing to me and I think there is so much energy in actually putting these thoughts in writing and then working towards achieving them. Most of us daydream and think about things that we shoulda, coulda, or woulda done. Writing these things down and reviewing them on a regular basis brings focus to accomplishing them.
I have started my list and I am not yet quite at 20. Here is what I have so far:
1. Visit Italy, Greece and Paris with my husband and son
2. Get remarried to my handsome husband, Vito, on the beach
3. Retire at 55
4. Learn how to paint
5. Take my parents on an Alaskan Cruise
6. Make Weekend Sisters a successful business with my sisters
7. Take a pilates class
8. Take dancing lessons with my husband
9. Lose weight and get in shape
10. See my son graduate from cosmetology school and work in his profession
11. Live near the beach for part of the year
12. Take a cruise with my sisters
13. Start a non-profit organization
14. Go white water rafting
15. Visit Sante Fe
Well, that's as far as I got. I need to do some more soul searching and add to the list. I would be interested in knowing if you have put together your list of 20 wishes or if you have read the book by Debbie Macomber. Drop me an email. I would love to hear from you.
The list of twenty wishes is very intriguing to me and I think there is so much energy in actually putting these thoughts in writing and then working towards achieving them. Most of us daydream and think about things that we shoulda, coulda, or woulda done. Writing these things down and reviewing them on a regular basis brings focus to accomplishing them.
I have started my list and I am not yet quite at 20. Here is what I have so far:
1. Visit Italy, Greece and Paris with my husband and son
2. Get remarried to my handsome husband, Vito, on the beach
3. Retire at 55
4. Learn how to paint
5. Take my parents on an Alaskan Cruise
6. Make Weekend Sisters a successful business with my sisters
7. Take a pilates class
8. Take dancing lessons with my husband
9. Lose weight and get in shape
10. See my son graduate from cosmetology school and work in his profession
11. Live near the beach for part of the year
12. Take a cruise with my sisters
13. Start a non-profit organization
14. Go white water rafting
15. Visit Sante Fe
Well, that's as far as I got. I need to do some more soul searching and add to the list. I would be interested in knowing if you have put together your list of 20 wishes or if you have read the book by Debbie Macomber. Drop me an email. I would love to hear from you.
I am 50 today!
Woo hoo! Today is my 50th birthday. Can't believe I have reached the BIG 5-0 Milestone. I can't say that I feel 50, at least not today. But then again what is 50 suppose to feel like?
I took the day off from work after going back and forth on whether I should or not. I don't ever recall taking a vacation day for my birthday. So today was a first in putting me first and taking the day off.
I intend to focus on me today. I slept in a little later this morning. I opened the bedroom door and was surprised to see that my husband and son decorated our family room and kitchen with streamers and decorations. This was such a surprise and so sweet of them. They both left me some real cute cards as well.
I had some yogurt for breakfast and then headed out for a walk with my dog, Bella. It was very mindy and rainy misty when we left. Bella looked up at me as if to say, "Hey, I didn't sign up for a walk in the rain!" HaHa. But on we went for about 30 minutes. I turned up the volume on my ipod and put one foot in front of the other. It was invigorating walking in the light rain in the middle of the morning. I usually envy the women who could walk and exercise during the day while I am at work. Today I was able to walk in their shoes.
I headed out and did some shopping for me at the fairly new Water's Creek Shopping area in Allen, TX. I love this new shopping area which is not your typical shopping center. It is like a little village complete with waterfalls, rock landscapes and pond. My first stop was at the Black and White Market store where I bought the really cute black and white animal print sweater that they are featuring in their ads. I can't wait to wear it. Next I headed over to Chico's and bought several tops and shirts. Shopping time was cut short so I could get to my 1:00 massage appt.
I got to Massage Wow, Allen, TX with time to spare for my 90 minute massage. Massage Wow is also fairly new and owned by Chiro Spa which is located next door. Massage Wow is running a special which includes a 90 minute massage and a footbath for just $39.95. This is such a bargain! Adrienne was my massage therapist and she was awesome. She applied just the right pressure and worked out my stress. I actually fell asleep on the table. I couldn't believe it but it was so relaxing and the ultimate treat to myself on my birthday.
So here I am now in Starbucks typing this blog. I am sitting in a big comfy chair with my venti unsweetened black iced tea. There is upbeat but soothing music playing in the background. I am feeling the creative juices flowing. I have not been blogging as often as I intended to. Life just gets in the way. Work, family, and other obligations always seem to take precedence over creative time. I want to change this going forward and spend more time on creative pursuits as well as getting back in shape.
Birthday wishes are kind of like New Year's resolutions. We start out with great intentions and sometimes face challenges in keeping these resolutions. I have yet to compile my list of wishes for my next 50 years but they will be focused on love, family, health, travel, and giving back.
Tonight we are going to our favorite Italian restaurant, Bugatti's, located in Dallas, TX. My husband and I got engaged there, had our rehearsal dinner there, celebrated my husband's 50th there with firends and family earlier this year in January and celebrate most of our special times there. I look forward to some great food, some fine wine and good time with my husband and son. Spending time together means more than any gift I could receive.
I have much to be thankful for on my 50th birthday. I have people who love me and who I love. I am fairly healthy. I have 2 dogs who bring me joy. I have a career I love at Fortune company. I have been blessed and Thank God everyday for the life that I live.
I took the day off from work after going back and forth on whether I should or not. I don't ever recall taking a vacation day for my birthday. So today was a first in putting me first and taking the day off.
I intend to focus on me today. I slept in a little later this morning. I opened the bedroom door and was surprised to see that my husband and son decorated our family room and kitchen with streamers and decorations. This was such a surprise and so sweet of them. They both left me some real cute cards as well.
I had some yogurt for breakfast and then headed out for a walk with my dog, Bella. It was very mindy and rainy misty when we left. Bella looked up at me as if to say, "Hey, I didn't sign up for a walk in the rain!" HaHa. But on we went for about 30 minutes. I turned up the volume on my ipod and put one foot in front of the other. It was invigorating walking in the light rain in the middle of the morning. I usually envy the women who could walk and exercise during the day while I am at work. Today I was able to walk in their shoes.
I headed out and did some shopping for me at the fairly new Water's Creek Shopping area in Allen, TX. I love this new shopping area which is not your typical shopping center. It is like a little village complete with waterfalls, rock landscapes and pond. My first stop was at the Black and White Market store where I bought the really cute black and white animal print sweater that they are featuring in their ads. I can't wait to wear it. Next I headed over to Chico's and bought several tops and shirts. Shopping time was cut short so I could get to my 1:00 massage appt.
I got to Massage Wow, Allen, TX with time to spare for my 90 minute massage. Massage Wow is also fairly new and owned by Chiro Spa which is located next door. Massage Wow is running a special which includes a 90 minute massage and a footbath for just $39.95. This is such a bargain! Adrienne was my massage therapist and she was awesome. She applied just the right pressure and worked out my stress. I actually fell asleep on the table. I couldn't believe it but it was so relaxing and the ultimate treat to myself on my birthday.
So here I am now in Starbucks typing this blog. I am sitting in a big comfy chair with my venti unsweetened black iced tea. There is upbeat but soothing music playing in the background. I am feeling the creative juices flowing. I have not been blogging as often as I intended to. Life just gets in the way. Work, family, and other obligations always seem to take precedence over creative time. I want to change this going forward and spend more time on creative pursuits as well as getting back in shape.
Birthday wishes are kind of like New Year's resolutions. We start out with great intentions and sometimes face challenges in keeping these resolutions. I have yet to compile my list of wishes for my next 50 years but they will be focused on love, family, health, travel, and giving back.
Tonight we are going to our favorite Italian restaurant, Bugatti's, located in Dallas, TX. My husband and I got engaged there, had our rehearsal dinner there, celebrated my husband's 50th there with firends and family earlier this year in January and celebrate most of our special times there. I look forward to some great food, some fine wine and good time with my husband and son. Spending time together means more than any gift I could receive.
I have much to be thankful for on my 50th birthday. I have people who love me and who I love. I am fairly healthy. I have 2 dogs who bring me joy. I have a career I love at Fortune company. I have been blessed and Thank God everyday for the life that I live.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Shopping for Vacation Condo Rental Discounts
I don't know where the time goes. Last week, we were in Destin, Florida and had a very good time. While there, I spent some time journaling and fully intended to post to this blog while I was there. However, I spent time living in the moment in the beach with my family. It was what we need to build some energy and chill out. Once we returned home, it was back to work and the usual every day activities. I didn't get back to blogging until today.
We had such a great time that we decided to go back to Destin next week with my husband's sister, Maria, her husband, Carl and their daughter/my niece, Jessica. My son, Anthony, starts Cosmetology School at the Toni and Guy Academy on August 5th and he also has orientation on July 28th. Jess starts college on Aug. 20th. So we had a short window of dates for all of us to go away together.
We didn't have the benefit of price shopping when we went to Destin over the 4th of July weekend. We left last minute and were desperate so we paid a high price for our one bedroom condo at Destin.
For our next trip which is only a week away, I was planning to shop for a better rate. We planned on renting a beach front condo with at least a two bedroom and maybe a three bedroom condo. I found that most two bedroom condos have twin beds in the 2nd bedroom. This was a problem and presented even a bigger challenge on getting a rental that did not cost us $500 a night.
I called the Sandestin resort directly and was quoted a rate of $600 for a 2BR beach front condo. I knew I could do better than this. So I went to the website, Vacation Rentals By Owner or VRBO.com. We rented vacation condos in Colorado through VRBO and had positive experiences. There were many listing on VRBO for Destin.
I focused on finding a condo in the Westwinds building at Sandestin and was so lucky to find one after 10 or more phone calls. The condo owner outsourced the property management to Gibson Beach Rentals. (Gibsonbeachrentals.com) I spoke with Joanna Gibson, who owns the agency with her husband. She was very courteous and helpful. I highly recommend calling them if you want to rent a condo in the Destin area.
The condo we rented for next week is located beach front on the 7th floor and has two bedrooms each with a King bed! We also have a queen sleeper sofa and 2 1/2 baths. We will also be taking an inflatable mattress for my son to sleep on. The best news is that I got the condo for $400 a night or a 30% savings over renting directly from Sandestin reservations. This nightly rate is also less than what we paid for our one bedroom rental last weekend. It pays to do a little legwork to save some money.
Please note though that are less expensive condo rentals in Destin. The prices are less if you are not right on the beach. Also, older condos in older buildings have lower rental rates. I really think there are rentals at many different price points.
During my research, I also talked to some very nice people at myvacationhaven.com who were helpful but unfortuantely did not have condos available that met our requirements. I just wanted to also put in a plug for them since they represent some very nice Destin area condos on VRBO.com
I can't wait to head back to Destin next week. This week we are staying for a longer time with 4 days on the beach. Heaven on the beach.
We had such a great time that we decided to go back to Destin next week with my husband's sister, Maria, her husband, Carl and their daughter/my niece, Jessica. My son, Anthony, starts Cosmetology School at the Toni and Guy Academy on August 5th and he also has orientation on July 28th. Jess starts college on Aug. 20th. So we had a short window of dates for all of us to go away together.
We didn't have the benefit of price shopping when we went to Destin over the 4th of July weekend. We left last minute and were desperate so we paid a high price for our one bedroom condo at Destin.
For our next trip which is only a week away, I was planning to shop for a better rate. We planned on renting a beach front condo with at least a two bedroom and maybe a three bedroom condo. I found that most two bedroom condos have twin beds in the 2nd bedroom. This was a problem and presented even a bigger challenge on getting a rental that did not cost us $500 a night.
I called the Sandestin resort directly and was quoted a rate of $600 for a 2BR beach front condo. I knew I could do better than this. So I went to the website, Vacation Rentals By Owner or VRBO.com. We rented vacation condos in Colorado through VRBO and had positive experiences. There were many listing on VRBO for Destin.
I focused on finding a condo in the Westwinds building at Sandestin and was so lucky to find one after 10 or more phone calls. The condo owner outsourced the property management to Gibson Beach Rentals. (Gibsonbeachrentals.com) I spoke with Joanna Gibson, who owns the agency with her husband. She was very courteous and helpful. I highly recommend calling them if you want to rent a condo in the Destin area.
The condo we rented for next week is located beach front on the 7th floor and has two bedrooms each with a King bed! We also have a queen sleeper sofa and 2 1/2 baths. We will also be taking an inflatable mattress for my son to sleep on. The best news is that I got the condo for $400 a night or a 30% savings over renting directly from Sandestin reservations. This nightly rate is also less than what we paid for our one bedroom rental last weekend. It pays to do a little legwork to save some money.
Please note though that are less expensive condo rentals in Destin. The prices are less if you are not right on the beach. Also, older condos in older buildings have lower rental rates. I really think there are rentals at many different price points.
During my research, I also talked to some very nice people at myvacationhaven.com who were helpful but unfortuantely did not have condos available that met our requirements. I just wanted to also put in a plug for them since they represent some very nice Destin area condos on VRBO.com
I can't wait to head back to Destin next week. This week we are staying for a longer time with 4 days on the beach. Heaven on the beach.
Destin - 2nd Day at the Beach
We awoke on Sunday morning and I quickly pulled back the curtains and headed out to the patio. It was overcast and cloudy with some rain in the forecast. However, I was not discouraged. It was another day in beach paradise!
My son and I headed over to Starbucks for breakfast and to buy the New York Times Sunday edition I love Starbucks even though I don't drink coffee. I mentioned this in a previous blog post. I love knowing that I will have a consistent experience at whichever Starbucks I go to. I ordered my favorite Venti unsweetened black iced tea with an energy shot. I also had a very delicious cranberry muffin. Some people go on vacation to eat gourmet meals and sample every local restaurant. As for me, I like good food but I am also satisfied by the simple things. A Starbucks iced tea, cranberry muffin and NY Times is perfect for my Sunday breakfast at the beach. Who could want more than this?
After breakfast, we headed back to the condo for a quick change into a swimsuit and I was off to the beach. I took my new beach chair to the edge of the water and plopped myself down. I had my book and the water was rolling in around my chair keeping me cool. This is living! It doesn’t get any better spending Sunday in my little beach chair at the water’s edge. I was in heaven!
My husband had some work to do so he did not come down to tbe beach until later. We then hung out together for awhile at the beach before heading over to the "Another Broken Egg Cafe" at the Baytowne Wharf. This awesome restaurant is only open for breakfast and lunch and its menu has a long list of breakfast items, sandwiches and salads. It was very quaint and the staff was very cheery. I had the chicken quesadilla which was very good. My husband had the Greek Salad with the Greek dressing which was also very good. I highly recommend this restaurant.
During lunch, the dark clouds and thunder were moving in but I was not to be discouraged. I headed back to the beach which was not as full as it was earlier. I continued to read my book until I finished it at about 5PM. With some rain drizzle in the air, I headed back up to the condo.
This was the best getaway I have had in some time. The spontaneity of deciding at last minute to head to Destin made it more of an exciting adventure. My son actually enjoyed himself and only got in trouble once for skateboarding in the covered garage. Oh well, we can’t get through a weekend without something happening.
I am looking forward to another weekend getaway in the near future.
My son and I headed over to Starbucks for breakfast and to buy the New York Times Sunday edition I love Starbucks even though I don't drink coffee. I mentioned this in a previous blog post. I love knowing that I will have a consistent experience at whichever Starbucks I go to. I ordered my favorite Venti unsweetened black iced tea with an energy shot. I also had a very delicious cranberry muffin. Some people go on vacation to eat gourmet meals and sample every local restaurant. As for me, I like good food but I am also satisfied by the simple things. A Starbucks iced tea, cranberry muffin and NY Times is perfect for my Sunday breakfast at the beach. Who could want more than this?
After breakfast, we headed back to the condo for a quick change into a swimsuit and I was off to the beach. I took my new beach chair to the edge of the water and plopped myself down. I had my book and the water was rolling in around my chair keeping me cool. This is living! It doesn’t get any better spending Sunday in my little beach chair at the water’s edge. I was in heaven!
My husband had some work to do so he did not come down to tbe beach until later. We then hung out together for awhile at the beach before heading over to the "Another Broken Egg Cafe" at the Baytowne Wharf. This awesome restaurant is only open for breakfast and lunch and its menu has a long list of breakfast items, sandwiches and salads. It was very quaint and the staff was very cheery. I had the chicken quesadilla which was very good. My husband had the Greek Salad with the Greek dressing which was also very good. I highly recommend this restaurant.
During lunch, the dark clouds and thunder were moving in but I was not to be discouraged. I headed back to the beach which was not as full as it was earlier. I continued to read my book until I finished it at about 5PM. With some rain drizzle in the air, I headed back up to the condo.
This was the best getaway I have had in some time. The spontaneity of deciding at last minute to head to Destin made it more of an exciting adventure. My son actually enjoyed himself and only got in trouble once for skateboarding in the covered garage. Oh well, we can’t get through a weekend without something happening.
I am looking forward to another weekend getaway in the near future.
Destin, Florida - Beach Lover's Paradise
The drive on Saturday morning went pretty well until we hit Hwy 98 in Destin. We crawled the last 10 miles to the resort. It took over an hour to go a few miles. Much to my husband's dismay this brought down our average mpg for the trip. Finally, we arrived at the Sandestin Resort - woo hoo!
We were greeted warmly by the staff at Sandestin and surprise – our room was ready early. Normally the check in time is 4PM and there we were at 1PM and our room was ready. Someone above was watching over us. (http://sandestin.com/)
Our one bedroom rental condo was on the 14th floor of the WestWinds tower with a direct view of the beautiful emerald green and blue Gulf of Mexico! I was in awe of the view. I think that my blood pressure immediately dropped 10 points. Even my 18 year old son was impressed with the view, the condo, and facilities.
No time to unpack, just a quick change into a swimsuit and I was headed to the beach! I walked to the water’s edge and again my blood pressure dropped another 10 points! We rented 2 chairs and umbrella at a surprisingly high cost of $39 a day. But hey the rental comes with two free souvenir Sandestin Beach towels. As if we don’t already have enough beach towels! What the heck, we are on vacation so we will splurge on the very nice Sandestin chairs. The chair guy was from Mississippi and was named Destroy. Hmm. Guess there is a story behind that name but not sure I wanted to hear it so I didn't ask.
My husband, Vito, was so good. He carried my beach bag that held my reading material, iPod, camera and flip video camera, water bottles and snacks to the beach. We took a nice walk on the beach scoping out other vacationers and properties along the beach. We love the beach and walking on the beach is one of our favorite things to do besides sitting in a chair with a drink reading our books!
About two years ago, my husband developed some sort of strange sensitivity to the sun. He has to ensure he puts on lots of sunscreen and wears a hat. This is something we all should do anyway but take for granted. So he doesn’t enjoy going to the beach as much as he used to but he says he will do anything to make me happy. He is such a sweetheart.
I stayed on the beach longer than my husband and took in the smell of the beach and the Gulf, listened to the music playing at the pool, and started a new book called Life’s A Beach by Claire Cook. How could I go wrong with a book with that title? Turns out this was a great book that was an easy and interesting read.
On Saturday night we drove over to Sandestin Baytowne Wharf to check out the restaurants and shops. I already narrowed our restaurant search to Graffiti & Funky Blues Shack and Roberto's Pizza. Graffiti’s is an eclectic restaurant with Italian food and entertainment. It appeared to be a really cool place until I checked out the menu and saw that spaghetti was priced at $24. I have an Italian husband and an 18-year old son who both like to eat a lot so I was a little concerned about the prices. Not that we couldn’t afford it. I just have a hard time paying over 5 times what it would cost me to feed us the same meal at home. So we headed over to Roberto's.
There was no wait at Roberto's and we were quickly seated at an outside table. We weathered the heat and humidity and did some great people watching waiting for our delicious pizzas to arrive. The pizza was very good. The wait staff was friendly but not overly attentive. They appeared to be college students and spent more time socializng with each other more than attending to their guests.
After dinner we checked out the stores which had great and even unique merchandise. However, none of the items jumped up and shouted "Buy Me." I was just so happy to be at the beach and I didn't need to buy anything
My son took the free Sandestin shuttle back to the condo. My husband and I stopped at a grocery store fpr some breakfast food, snacks and beverages. I also went to CVS and bought a little beach chair that I could sit in at the edge of the water on Sunday. Then it was back to the condo for some R&R.
We were greeted warmly by the staff at Sandestin and surprise – our room was ready early. Normally the check in time is 4PM and there we were at 1PM and our room was ready. Someone above was watching over us. (http://sandestin.com/)
Our one bedroom rental condo was on the 14th floor of the WestWinds tower with a direct view of the beautiful emerald green and blue Gulf of Mexico! I was in awe of the view. I think that my blood pressure immediately dropped 10 points. Even my 18 year old son was impressed with the view, the condo, and facilities.
No time to unpack, just a quick change into a swimsuit and I was headed to the beach! I walked to the water’s edge and again my blood pressure dropped another 10 points! We rented 2 chairs and umbrella at a surprisingly high cost of $39 a day. But hey the rental comes with two free souvenir Sandestin Beach towels. As if we don’t already have enough beach towels! What the heck, we are on vacation so we will splurge on the very nice Sandestin chairs. The chair guy was from Mississippi and was named Destroy. Hmm. Guess there is a story behind that name but not sure I wanted to hear it so I didn't ask.
My husband, Vito, was so good. He carried my beach bag that held my reading material, iPod, camera and flip video camera, water bottles and snacks to the beach. We took a nice walk on the beach scoping out other vacationers and properties along the beach. We love the beach and walking on the beach is one of our favorite things to do besides sitting in a chair with a drink reading our books!
About two years ago, my husband developed some sort of strange sensitivity to the sun. He has to ensure he puts on lots of sunscreen and wears a hat. This is something we all should do anyway but take for granted. So he doesn’t enjoy going to the beach as much as he used to but he says he will do anything to make me happy. He is such a sweetheart.
I stayed on the beach longer than my husband and took in the smell of the beach and the Gulf, listened to the music playing at the pool, and started a new book called Life’s A Beach by Claire Cook. How could I go wrong with a book with that title? Turns out this was a great book that was an easy and interesting read.
On Saturday night we drove over to Sandestin Baytowne Wharf to check out the restaurants and shops. I already narrowed our restaurant search to Graffiti & Funky Blues Shack and Roberto's Pizza. Graffiti’s is an eclectic restaurant with Italian food and entertainment. It appeared to be a really cool place until I checked out the menu and saw that spaghetti was priced at $24. I have an Italian husband and an 18-year old son who both like to eat a lot so I was a little concerned about the prices. Not that we couldn’t afford it. I just have a hard time paying over 5 times what it would cost me to feed us the same meal at home. So we headed over to Roberto's.
There was no wait at Roberto's and we were quickly seated at an outside table. We weathered the heat and humidity and did some great people watching waiting for our delicious pizzas to arrive. The pizza was very good. The wait staff was friendly but not overly attentive. They appeared to be college students and spent more time socializng with each other more than attending to their guests.
After dinner we checked out the stores which had great and even unique merchandise. However, none of the items jumped up and shouted "Buy Me." I was just so happy to be at the beach and I didn't need to buy anything
My son took the free Sandestin shuttle back to the condo. My husband and I stopped at a grocery store fpr some breakfast food, snacks and beverages. I also went to CVS and bought a little beach chair that I could sit in at the edge of the water on Sunday. Then it was back to the condo for some R&R.
July 4th Weekend At Destin, Florida
The morning of July 4th, my husband, son and I decided to get away and head to Destin, Florida. This decision was made without any reservations for a holiday weekend. We packed within an hour and dropped our two dogs off at my mother in law' s house and we were off to the beach. This was the first time we have ever done something so spontaneous.
You have to know that both my husband and I are typical Type A personalities who like to plan before leaping. We are not impulsive in the least. However, a break at the beach was just what we all needed so off we went.
Packing for this beach trip was easy. We didn't need much more than shorts, tees and bathing suits. That was the easy part. The tough part was all the technical gadgets we took with us including laptops, sprint connect any where cards cell phone and blue tooth chargers, power cords, etc. I think the electronics took up more room than our clothes!
Now granted we didn’t leave until 1PM in the afternoon on Friday, I was looking forward to the 2 full days at the beach. About half way into Louisiana, I started to call resorts in Destin trying to find a place to stay. Good news was that I found a beach front condo at Sandestin for Saturday and Sunday nights but no availability for Friday night. No sweat. We ccould just stay at a less expensive hotel in Destin area since we will be getting in prettylate at night any way.
Back on the road after dinner, I started to call various hotel chains for a one night stay in the Destin Pensacola area. I guess I waited too long and all of the rooms closer in were already booked. We chose to stay at a fairly new Comfort Suites in Tillman’s Corner, Alabama. Nice room, free breakfast, and 2 hours from our destination. No sweat. We got a good night’s rest and headed out to Destin in the morning.
You have to know that both my husband and I are typical Type A personalities who like to plan before leaping. We are not impulsive in the least. However, a break at the beach was just what we all needed so off we went.
Packing for this beach trip was easy. We didn't need much more than shorts, tees and bathing suits. That was the easy part. The tough part was all the technical gadgets we took with us including laptops, sprint connect any where cards cell phone and blue tooth chargers, power cords, etc. I think the electronics took up more room than our clothes!
Now granted we didn’t leave until 1PM in the afternoon on Friday, I was looking forward to the 2 full days at the beach. About half way into Louisiana, I started to call resorts in Destin trying to find a place to stay. Good news was that I found a beach front condo at Sandestin for Saturday and Sunday nights but no availability for Friday night. No sweat. We ccould just stay at a less expensive hotel in Destin area since we will be getting in prettylate at night any way.
Back on the road after dinner, I started to call various hotel chains for a one night stay in the Destin Pensacola area. I guess I waited too long and all of the rooms closer in were already booked. We chose to stay at a fairly new Comfort Suites in Tillman’s Corner, Alabama. Nice room, free breakfast, and 2 hours from our destination. No sweat. We got a good night’s rest and headed out to Destin in the morning.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Fond Memories of Wildwood Crest, NJ
I love the beach and so do my sisters! It is so relaxing for me to walk on the beach or just sit in a chair on the beach while reading my favorite book. The sound and smell of the ocean have the most relaxing impact on me.
My sister, Diane, is at beach this weekend, with her husband, son and her son's girlfriend. My nephew, Stephen, celebrated his 21st birthday this week so the trip was a special celebration. They live in Pennslvania and keep a camper trailer at a campground near Wildwood, NJ. I am so envious that within a few hours from home they can be at the beach smelling the salt air and hanging out. Wish I could have been there this week.
The beach has always been a special place for our family. When we were young, we would rent a house at the Jersey Shore for just a week. But it was the best week of the year. We looked forward to it all year long. It was a time to leave the day to day behind and live carefree. Within a few years, we started staying at hotels with efficiency units and swimming pools. We have so many fond memories of those weeks at the shore in Wildwood Crest, NJ.
My parents and my sister, Donna and her children still go to the Pan American Motor Inn in Wildwood Crest for one special week every July. My family has been staying at this same hotel for over 30 years! Can you believe it? The Morey family owns the Pan Am and are gracious hosts. They also own various Piers with rides, foods, and games in Wildwood Crest.
Things have changed over the years. It is no longer safe to allow your pre-teens to cruise the boardwalk at night without an adult. The boardwalk is a little worn out but still has a special aura or shops selling trinkets, restaurants, and carnival games. The cost of renting a bike for 2 hours has increased from $2.00 to $6.00 or more.
One of my favorite activities in Wildwood was renting a bike in the morning and riding on the boardwalk with my sisters and cousins. We would ride all the way to the end of the boardwalk in North Wildwood. Then we would stop for a donut and a drink before heading back towards the hotel. I have even had the opportunity to do this with my husband and son. No matter how old I have become, I still look forward to renting a bike to ride on the boardwalk the next time I visit Wildwood.
I recommend the Jersey Shore for having a great vacation with your family and friends.
My sister, Diane, is at beach this weekend, with her husband, son and her son's girlfriend. My nephew, Stephen, celebrated his 21st birthday this week so the trip was a special celebration. They live in Pennslvania and keep a camper trailer at a campground near Wildwood, NJ. I am so envious that within a few hours from home they can be at the beach smelling the salt air and hanging out. Wish I could have been there this week.
The beach has always been a special place for our family. When we were young, we would rent a house at the Jersey Shore for just a week. But it was the best week of the year. We looked forward to it all year long. It was a time to leave the day to day behind and live carefree. Within a few years, we started staying at hotels with efficiency units and swimming pools. We have so many fond memories of those weeks at the shore in Wildwood Crest, NJ.
My parents and my sister, Donna and her children still go to the Pan American Motor Inn in Wildwood Crest for one special week every July. My family has been staying at this same hotel for over 30 years! Can you believe it? The Morey family owns the Pan Am and are gracious hosts. They also own various Piers with rides, foods, and games in Wildwood Crest.
Things have changed over the years. It is no longer safe to allow your pre-teens to cruise the boardwalk at night without an adult. The boardwalk is a little worn out but still has a special aura or shops selling trinkets, restaurants, and carnival games. The cost of renting a bike for 2 hours has increased from $2.00 to $6.00 or more.
One of my favorite activities in Wildwood was renting a bike in the morning and riding on the boardwalk with my sisters and cousins. We would ride all the way to the end of the boardwalk in North Wildwood. Then we would stop for a donut and a drink before heading back towards the hotel. I have even had the opportunity to do this with my husband and son. No matter how old I have become, I still look forward to renting a bike to ride on the boardwalk the next time I visit Wildwood.
I recommend the Jersey Shore for having a great vacation with your family and friends.
Hanging Out at Starbucks
My sisters and I live over 1,000 miles apart. However, when we get together one of our favorite things is going to Starbucks, getting our favorite beverage, and catching up with each other.
Every time I go to Starbucks, I think of my sisters. We will frequently call each other to let the other know that we are in Starbucks. I love the smell of coffee, even though my stomach doesn't. So I am one of those unusual people that go to Starbucks for a "venti umsweetened black iced tea", for the smell of coffee, and for the comfort I feel when I am there. I love to just hang out and read a book or the newspaper. My husband and I also frequent Starbucks on the weekend. It is not too noisy and we can carry on a conversation.
My sisters and I have traveled to New York, San Francisco, Florida, Pennsylvania, Vegas, and Texas and we always look for our favorite gathering spot. We have many good memories made at Starbucks. In New York City, it is a favorite breakfast spot for us as well as place to stop in and warm up on a winter day. It is also the only place I know that consistently may have the Sunday edition of the New York times.
I envy the people who work from Starbucks using their wireless PC's and cell phones. Someday, that will be me. I hope to be writing this blog from a Starbucks location in the near future.
Every time I go to Starbucks, I think of my sisters. We will frequently call each other to let the other know that we are in Starbucks. I love the smell of coffee, even though my stomach doesn't. So I am one of those unusual people that go to Starbucks for a "venti umsweetened black iced tea", for the smell of coffee, and for the comfort I feel when I am there. I love to just hang out and read a book or the newspaper. My husband and I also frequent Starbucks on the weekend. It is not too noisy and we can carry on a conversation.
My sisters and I have traveled to New York, San Francisco, Florida, Pennsylvania, Vegas, and Texas and we always look for our favorite gathering spot. We have many good memories made at Starbucks. In New York City, it is a favorite breakfast spot for us as well as place to stop in and warm up on a winter day. It is also the only place I know that consistently may have the Sunday edition of the New York times.
I envy the people who work from Starbucks using their wireless PC's and cell phones. Someday, that will be me. I hope to be writing this blog from a Starbucks location in the near future.
Renewing My Commitment to Blogging
I can't believe that I set up this blog so many months ago and then did not post any updates. I'm wondering if I am like others who start a blog or am I unusual in this delay?
Part of the reason for the delay was some family issues that I was dealing with during the last couple of months. I have been mentally drained and did not think I wanted to use this blog as an outlet for resolving those issues.
The second reason for the delay was just pure fear. What if people don't like what I post? What if my posts are dull and boring? So during this time, I have also spent time researching other blogs. There is so much good writing out there.
So I am reenergized in exploring the world of blogging. I hope you like my postings. I look forward to hearing from you.
Part of the reason for the delay was some family issues that I was dealing with during the last couple of months. I have been mentally drained and did not think I wanted to use this blog as an outlet for resolving those issues.
The second reason for the delay was just pure fear. What if people don't like what I post? What if my posts are dull and boring? So during this time, I have also spent time researching other blogs. There is so much good writing out there.
So I am reenergized in exploring the world of blogging. I hope you like my postings. I look forward to hearing from you.
Sunday, February 3, 2008
Super Bowl Sunday and Sisters
Today is Super Bowl Sunday with the New England Patriots squaring off against the New York Giants. This is another great opportunity for sisters to get together. I am not much of a football fan but the hoopla around the Super Bowl is the perfect time to host a get together with your sisters, their families and friends. This of course assumes that you live near each other. If not, you could host a party with your sister like friends. Even thought I am not much of a football fan, I do like seeing all of the new commercials. Participating in Monday morning conversations at work is easier if you at least watched the commercials and could provide your thoughts on them.
If you really don't want to do a Super Bowl Party, you could use this time to give the guys time on their own to watch the game and cheer on their teams. The girls on the other hand, could use this time for some sister bonding over dinner, go to a movie, play cards or board games, or just hang out at Starbucks. With the guys focused on the game and hopefully watching the kids, you have some time for a good chick flick. Today is a good day to see a movie like 27 Dresses.
Since I am feeling a little under the weather today, I am not doing much but taking it easy. My sisters live over a 1000 miles away and have their own Super Bowl plans. So updating our website and blogging today keeps me close to them in thought.
Don't look at Super Bowl Sunday as another Sunday game day, but rather a day for sisters to get together to catch up, laugh and enjoy the day!
If you really don't want to do a Super Bowl Party, you could use this time to give the guys time on their own to watch the game and cheer on their teams. The girls on the other hand, could use this time for some sister bonding over dinner, go to a movie, play cards or board games, or just hang out at Starbucks. With the guys focused on the game and hopefully watching the kids, you have some time for a good chick flick. Today is a good day to see a movie like 27 Dresses.
Since I am feeling a little under the weather today, I am not doing much but taking it easy. My sisters live over a 1000 miles away and have their own Super Bowl plans. So updating our website and blogging today keeps me close to them in thought.
Don't look at Super Bowl Sunday as another Sunday game day, but rather a day for sisters to get together to catch up, laugh and enjoy the day!
Welcome to our Weekend Sisters Blog!
Hi and welcome to our new blog, Weekend Sisters! We are 3 sisters who are in the prime of our lives and who enjoy spending time together. We really believe in the importance of family first and ensuring that we maintain a good relationship.
I am Debbie the oldest of 3 sisters. I live in Texas over 1000 miles from my two sisters, Diane and Donna. We are in our mid-life phase, all married with kids ranging from 9 to 20. Because the 3 of us do not live each other, we treasure the time we spend together in special weekend adventures. However, there are also simple get togethers and activities that we do that could be done if everyone lived in the same place - manicures, pedicures, Starbucks outings, garage sale hunting, bookstore browsing, shopping, etc.
Our goal with our blog is to share our stories and hopefully influence other sisters out there to spend quality time together. We also want to hear from all sisters out there about your lives and experiences and then pass them onto others. We would eventually like to host get togethers at interesting locations for sisters to bond, improve their relationships, and make memories.
We are hoping to also make some money from our advertisers to support this site and fund some of our future outings that you could be a part of. We have a website, weekendsisters.com that has additional content and interesting information. We will also eventually have interesting and fun sister items for purchase.
First things first though. We are so glad you stopped by and hope you will come back for return visit.
Have a great day!
I am Debbie the oldest of 3 sisters. I live in Texas over 1000 miles from my two sisters, Diane and Donna. We are in our mid-life phase, all married with kids ranging from 9 to 20. Because the 3 of us do not live each other, we treasure the time we spend together in special weekend adventures. However, there are also simple get togethers and activities that we do that could be done if everyone lived in the same place - manicures, pedicures, Starbucks outings, garage sale hunting, bookstore browsing, shopping, etc.
Our goal with our blog is to share our stories and hopefully influence other sisters out there to spend quality time together. We also want to hear from all sisters out there about your lives and experiences and then pass them onto others. We would eventually like to host get togethers at interesting locations for sisters to bond, improve their relationships, and make memories.
We are hoping to also make some money from our advertisers to support this site and fund some of our future outings that you could be a part of. We have a website, weekendsisters.com that has additional content and interesting information. We will also eventually have interesting and fun sister items for purchase.
First things first though. We are so glad you stopped by and hope you will come back for return visit.
Have a great day!
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